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How to use your Hater to make you Greater.

If you're going to be successful you can't fight every battle. Sun Tsu(Art of War) says "for to win 100 victories in 100 battles is not the acme of skill.  To subdue the enemy without fighting is the acme of skill."   The bigger you become, the more people will hate.  They will criticize you for your stuff, but here's the kicker, they DON'T EVEN HAVE THEIR OWN STUFF.  Let me show you how to handle "Haters".  It starts at this verse right here.   Therefore submit to GOD.  Resist the devil  and he will flee from you(James 4:7).  When you submit to GOD, then you become less "Fleshy"(you don't cuss people out or do things that will satisfy YOURSELF for the moment) you start loving people.  Remember the term "Kill them with kindness"?  How many times have you been nice to your "haters" and they ended up staying away from you.  I do that all the time.  I'll walk up to you and hug you like you were my long lost brother, knowing all the time, your hoping i fail.  They'll  probably will throw a party if i do.  You have to use those people as your motivation.  I'm successful because of the GOD first.  I'm also successful because of the people who told me "No".  I'm successful because of the people who didn't think i would amount to anything once my football career was over.  I'm successful because of the women who left me.  I'm successful because of the women i left.  Either adversity will do one of two things....1.) it will destroy and kill you or 2) it will drive you.  You can't put out every fire, address every rumor, and defend every decision you've ever made in your life.  You have to remember your "Purpose driven".  Always remember, you can't run fast, forward, if your always looking backwards.  It'll slow you down.
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